Philosophy

What’s your personal philosophy? What do you believe? What’s your culture? What’s your creed? We all have a code, a set of beliefs that guide us through our life. Our personal philosophies are created by our experiences. They are lessons that were instilled early in our lives. They are deep rooted. They are the foundation for our actions. They are our motives. What motivates you? It's your philosophy.

Casualties

There will always be casualties. Unintentional hurt and damage caused by unforeseen and known circumstances. It is unavoidable.  Collateral damage is a part of the game. Translation: You can't make everyone happy. Everyone will not support your decisions. Everyone will not get it. People will disagree, and you will have to pick up the pieces and keep it moving. It's not personal. 

Discern

It can be hard to read people. Especially, when people present their representative instead of their true selves. Trust your gut. Trust that feeling. Trust your first impression. Discernment doesn't rely on tangible evidence. It's a feeling. It's an unction. It's a personal truth. Some might call it a vibe. Feel their energy. Character is a consistent truth. Pay attention to subtle signals. See the whole picture, not just what is trying to be shown.

 

"The first point of wisdom is to discern that which is false; the second, to know that which is true."-Lactantius

Principle

What do you believe in? What is the moral standard for your life? Do you believe that rules are meant to be broken? What does your character look like? These are all questions that you have to ask yourself at one point or another. Is the man or woman in the mirror calling for change? I teach my kids that they are leaders, individuals, and examples. They are young ladies with morals, character, and principles. They are young women with a godly standard. I try to instill in them to do the right thing when no one is looking because that is the true test of character. What are the rules you are governed by? Are you a person of principle?